You know between what people say and what they are lies the shadow. I find my problem to be the opposite of what you state, I always assume people are full of shit until they prove otherwise. I have begun to realise that that is not a positive outlook; so I try to give them the benefit of the doubt. But it's not easy. I guess thats why there are saints and there are sinners. I just don't find myself able to accept that someone would be content with postulating something obviously wrong or twisted; so I think I understand that feeling of frustration of which you speak. People will create an alternate reality that is so transparent you feel like grabbing their collar and shaking them awake, with personal agendas and hidden motives, and for what? My wife says" Why do you care?" Good question. I just find it hard to be a bobblehead doll, with my head going up and down, and just accept whatever someone is trying to BS me with. Thank you doctor, time to get off the couch. I'm sure my problem could be solved by any competent psychoanalyst at 150$ per session in about ten or twenty years.