Hillbilly Elegy [message #93209] |
Wed, 24 February 2021 22:32 ![Go to next message Go to next message](/forum/theme/AudioRoundTable/images/down.png) |
PinkHair
Messages: 28 Registered: December 2020
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Has anyone else seen this movie on Netflix? I watched it with my mother and we're currently listening to J.D. Vance's memoir, on which the film was based. It's a heartbreaking look at poverty in Appalachia and in the United States. It also explores the impact that poverty and generational trauma has on a young person.
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Re: Hillbilly Elegy [message #93215 is a reply to message #93210] |
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Rusty
Messages: 1148 Registered: May 2018 Location: Kansas City Missouri
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I can relate this author to a real remembrance I have. Where I used to work we would get students trying to better themselves. Though doing so through the high cost privatized trade school route. One student was a mix of Caucasian hillbilly extraction and American Indian. She was intelligent, a good hands on learner, was dependable and willing to take on responsibility. We wanted to have her to come work with us. Her tragic flaw we came to find was a total lack of educational discipline. We learned from her talking about her two cultural heritage's, a home life and extended families prone to stubborn poverty and complacency. She was like a family matriarch next inline to her hillbilly mother that had worked at a McDonalds for decades. Her American Indian father had died in his 50's. She continually fielded cell phone calls from family members beset with petty problems needing her guidance.
Students in the Radiologic trade are required to pass a comprehensive national registry. We tried to impress upon her the preparation needed to be successful, bought educational study guides in that regard to help her, and finally arranged for a tutor to help her cram for the test. She was overwhelmed too late, too unprepared. She fawned disrespect our interventions with misplaced personal pride. We soon lost contact with her and always lamented and wondered what plight faced her. Paying off high cost student loans without the ability of an income to do so. She wouldn't be able to work in the field without that sheepskin. Truly, a microcosm study of the disfunction the author depicts in his book.
A tale of two polar opposites in these two articles. Coming together in unison with the broad introspection Vance bridges in our class system, culture, economy and nation.
https://www.newyorker.com/culture/cultural-comment/the-lives-of-poor-white-people
https://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/trump-us-politics-poor-whites/
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Re: Hillbilly Elegy [message #93216 is a reply to message #93215] |
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Wayne Parham
Messages: 18752 Registered: January 2001
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Interesting. I've seen stuff like that too. Some of 'em make it, but some don't. It's all about taking action and being willing. If a person is willing to take action to improve themselves - especially if they reach out to the right support organizations - they'll always be successful.
The ones that aren't successful fall into one of many traps. I can spot 'em. The self-sufficient one that has all the answers, the one that blames everyone else for their problems, the one that thinks they don't have a problem, the one that always has an excuse or reason why they "can't," the one that procrastinates, the one that starts strong but then trickles off. There are others, but those are the most common ones I see.
Funny that these misstep traps can happen to a professional as easily as they can to a skid-row bum. It's not just the welfare cases that suffer from generational alcoholism and drug addiction. And sometimes those that have been very successful in life have a harder time getting sober than those that haven't because of their ego.
Then again, I've seen guys that have no home, no car, no job, no skills and no family that are just as arrogant as a guy with a PhD, so narcissism isn't limited to those that are beautiful, popular, intelligent or skilled. An addict on skid-row can be just as arrogant as one that is an executive for a big corporation.
While I know that some of these kinds of things happen to people that aren't addicts, it usually - almost always - happens to people in families where there is alcoholism or drug addiction. Most chemical dependency treatment professionals would say the drugs aren't the cause but rather the symptom, so when we see individuals or families acting this way, there is probably some drug addiction or alcoholism in the family. If not, it is likely to start, because these kinds of behaviors are a root cause.
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Re: Hillbilly Elegy [message #93250 is a reply to message #93209] |
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Mica
Messages: 117 Registered: October 2020
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I did watch it and I thought it was amazing! I loved how it touched on two very important topics, drugs and poverty. I wasn't sure i would like it, but I did. I'm thankful that my life has never been that way, but it was a real eye opener to me that some are.
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