I do not know how you arrived at that train of thought. What I said was "BOY GIRL ISSUES" not thing. To me a relationship is not fully entailed in the disagreements that fall under the ISSUES umbrella, but is comprised of how you deal with SAID ISSUES and maybe mostly the chemistry between the two in the relationship. So please reread and reevaluate what is at least I was trying to say. And I'll try to work at my way of stating things in "clearer" english.