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items: Greeting strangers
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Greeting strangers
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description: People tell me I have a split-personality; that I talk a lot but in some instances but remain extremely quiet in others. I am particularly very poor in starting conversations with people I am not used. I will greet them then it all ends there. I like screening people a lot before I can let them into my circle. Is this a good or bad idea or people are just different?
creator: sawyer25
date: 2016-08-03T20:09:42-00:00

Re: Greeting strangers
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description: In the world we live in today, I don't find it strange in the least to screen people before you get too close to them. AAMOF, it's just good common sense. Fact is, some people are nothing but 100% pure Grade A trouble on two legs, bar none. I know that I can say some of my biggest mistakes and regrets in life have directly resulted from to being too close to people that I should have been avoiding like they were ebola carriers. Now that I'm older and have developed a much more keen eye for certain things, I steer a veeeeeery wide berth around certain types of people I encounter in order to avoid repeating those earlier mistakes. Live and learn. I don't think there's anything odd about anything you mentioned, though some people may find it unusual. Here's why I say that: I think I can tell which (well, within two!) out of the twelve basic personality types you have, simply by reading your post. If I'm correct, such behavior is pretty typical of your particular temperament. I guess a bit of an explanation is in order here... This is actually some pretty fun stuff. There are four distinct types of personality/temperament. Every person has one of them as their primary temperament, and one of the other three as a secondary temperament coupled together with it, for a total of twelve possible combinations. This was thought to have been first observed and documented by Hippocrates more than two millenia ago. You were born with your particular primary/secondary combination, which determines almost everything about you. Each type has its own particular strengths and weaknesses, and each is attracted to certain traits of the other temperaments and repulsed by other traits. Here are some traits typical to your dominant and secondary type (if I got 'em right, that is!): You're a perfectionist, holding others and especially yourself to high standards (often unachievable ones in the case of yourself). You're an organizer and a planner. When packing for a trip, you make a meticulou…
creator: Thermionic
date: 2016-08-09T03:58:25-00:00

Re: Greeting strangers
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description: I'm able to relate to your post quite well, sawyer25. I do, however, find it easier sharing my problems with perfect strangers. And thanks for the commentary, Thermionic; it was interesting.
creator: Rodial
date: 2016-08-29T09:28:55-00:00

Re: Greeting strangers
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description: Thermionic, your post made a really interesting read and I think I relate to most of the traits you mentioned. I am particularly coy about talking to strangers and I try to really screen people before beginning to get close to them. At the end of the day, people will call you all sorts of names if you do not easily open up to new friendships but overall, I think it is important to stick to your personality. This will make life much much easier.
creator: moss24
date: 2016-09-06T07:43:35-00:00